Thursday, June 28, 2012

Our Story

Today is our half-way mark of one year since being married. In light of this special occasion, I attempt to outline our story, David and I, and how we came to be.

When people ask where we met, we always say that we met in class, in Biology 265 Molecular Biology to be more specific in the fall semester of 2010 (so romantic, I know). This is true, although we also had a Doctrine and Covenants class together at that time also. However, the first time we talked was in Bio 265 lab, and now I will elaborate.

As much as it might sound extremely cheesy or cliche, I liked David the moment I laid my little hazel eyes on him, and no joke, I said to myself... that is the guy I can really see myself with. But can you believe, even though we pretty much sat at the same table the entire semester, we never really said anything to eachother?

UNTIL one day near the end of the semester, in lab as mentioned, David asked me a question about our lab. Naturally, I lit up, and ensured to display my best smile. I think it worked. ;)

Well, we clicked, as friends of course. The unfortunate part it seemed is that both of us were dating other people at that time. I can specifically remember one awkward moment where both of us was with our other significant person standing outside Hale 1 (the girl's dorm, where all the couples stand around to say goodbye for the night) and I thought to myself....this is totally wrong! I should be with David, not this guy. And he should be with me, not her!

There was honestly no jealousy going on here, just a knowledge that I was supposed to be with David. But how could that happen? Even if I made myself single, who's to say he wouldn't end up with that other girl anyways?

It seemed unlikely, but I just KNEW I had to at least give it a try. And if I do say so myself, I was quite courageous to make myself single and available, and wait with great patience to see if what I thought was right was really right. There were times when I was doubtful and almost sure I was totally crazy. I mean, who waits for a guy who is already committed to someone else? A crazy person! But I just KNEW I had to do it.

And so I waited.

And waited.

And after displaying the patience of Job for several months, I finally started to receive confirmations that maybe I wasn't so crazy after all. There were many bumps along the road, from the time that we finally expressed that we both felt the same way until we married. And those things will be a story for some other day...



But for now...I just have to say that after six months of marriage, I have received confirmations time and time again that David is the person I know I am supposed to be with, and I am so grateful for him and everything that he does for me. He supports me, encourages me, and sacrifices for my happiness. We will soon be parents, and I cannot wait to see David play the role as father, as I know he will be an amazing one.

I love you DAVID JOEL MEJIA. Happy 6 months!!





2 comments:

  1. How fun! And I can be a witness to this whole thing - that you really did think all these things! Haha thanks for the share. Now keep 'em comin!

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  2. Abbie! I LOVE your blog! MISS YOUR GUTS!!! Congrats on the 6month anniversary and the baby I'm so happy for you and David!!! Y'all are awesome!

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